I have two pairs of headphones. One of them have a cable and hare big, while the others are wireless plugs that are very compact.
When I go somewhere I usually end up bringing both. They are my Apple AirPds and my ATH-M50x.
The AirPods are great, for what they are. And they are the best bluetooth sound thing I have ever used, from a UX perspective. The batteries are becoming worse, but still pretty good within the constraints.
While the M50x is what I prefer to use, because it is really comfortable, shuts out everything, and sounds way better. I love this pair of headphones because how much you get for how little money. The retail is $130, but you can find them at $100 if you have some time.
The way I do it is that when I walk around the house, walk the dog or walk from or to the train station I use the AirPods because then I need to be aware what’s hapening around me.
But everywhere else I use the M50x. I don’t want a Bluetooth version of them, but what I miss is a Lightning version of their cable.